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If you are looking for ways to save your relationship that makes more sense to start with the basics and build your way. His efforts are admirable, but if you have things in the wrong order, you can even add insult to the love interest and gone, maybe forever.
You know, our parents and the government requires us to spend (and waste) years in grade of primary, secondary and higher education at the same time. They taught us some basic concepts in mathematics, English and science, most of which we soon forget. But something Relations 101 is burned every curriculum.
So, here’s some of what I call Relationship 101 to teach you how to save your relationship. It is not uncommon for a relationship with a difficult stage hit, in fact, is more common than my observations. One problem is that many people give very fast.
Many of these relationships can be formed, but never at this stage, because one or both parties are angry or hurt and I never looked beyond that. There may be a little too much self-focus or nearsightedness, focus on today and forgot to find a way forward.
There are times, even when only one person was interested in how your relationship and that just does not work very well to save.
Before you criticize your partner’s behavior to you, see how you behave towards them. We are not assigning blame here, but that’s part of it, not trying to blame him without checking their words and actions.
Remember, all you need I know I learned in kindergarten? It’s like the golden rule, do your partner if you want to do with you.
You want him to be selfish and always find their way? How often do you think about what you can do for them, without expecting anything in return?
If you are together for a while, you may be comfortable around them. This is good on one hand you feel comfortable with someone you love. But this is bad if you have them as true or do things that you would not do for someone new. Think about it.
Pretend you just met someone and interest in his palace. How you dress, what you say, how would you act? Try this and see how they react and hopefully answer.
If and when they hurt you, calmly explain, and tell them that you expect otherwise. Maybe they did not even realize.
A relationship is a journey, the road sometimes paved and sometimes not. Do not give up when you click on hard times.